These were the words spoken
by Axel when we asked him what we should name the new baby. He was quite consistent with that
response. Well, "New Baby
Comes" has finally arrived -- nearly 3 months ago! Our apologies to Axel, for selecting a
different name, to Tobi, for not having a baby girl (which she had already
named Carly), and to the new baby, whose blog post was left until months later
while his father was trapped in the service waiting room at a car dealership
and finished in the airport on the way home from a business trip.
Shauna and I both came
across the name Soren separately...we're still not sure who suggested it first,
but whoever it was, the other had already been thinking it. There was only one problem...the meaning of
the name Soren is "severe" or "serious". It didn't change the fact that we liked the
name, but we were still undecided when Shauna went for a pre-op appointment 3
days before the scheduled C-section. I
was at home with the kids in the middle of the work day when I got a call from
Shauna saying they were sending her to the hospital to monitor her blood
pressure. After her blood pressure
normalized and was no longer a concern, OUR level of concern was bumped up a
few notches...what if they decided to do the C-section NOW? We still have 3 days to prepare, right?! Maybe not...
With the pressure on, it was
time to get serious (see what I did there?) about choosing a name. At this point, our call had ended, and we
were using possibly the best method of marital communication. No, I’ll expand that...possibly the best
method of all communication currently known to man -- text messaging. As technology allows special moments to be
immortalized forever, this fine example is no exception.
Without further ado, I share
with you the intimate details concerning the careful consideration of our third
child's name (Ben’s comments in blue):
And there it is --
Soren Isaac's name was decided over text.
Just because I find it funny, and it helps me understand where my older kids
get their whining tendencies, here's the update from two hours later:
“Usual” at the house has
become many wonderful moments and laughter, peppered liberally with others of frustration, temporary feelings of desperation, and outright insanity. Basically, parenthood in general – amplified by having 3 children under
5 (including one Axel).